The Secret On How To Flirt And Attract Women
Many of us, as men, we have never been taught how to talk to women. Therefore, many of them spend their lives without knowing how to attract a woman, let alone, how to talk to her.Rather than attract it, you could be doing is:
Try to keep your interest without success
Do not make her laugh
Do not be yourself
and NOT create attraction
Many of us blame our lack of citations of our looks, money, power or popularity .... but the truth is that if you really learn to talk, flirt with them, and if you can "excite" ... you will attract many.
Then, in order to understand how to talk to a girl so attractive ... resultes you must know first what is attractive to them.
To answer it, we'll start with two important steps.What kind of conversation repel women?
a.) Something clearly disenchanted men women are shown "in need". Most men do not realize when they do, but women recognized immediately. They easily grasp when you're trying to impress and when a man tries to impress a woman, actually get the opposite effect. The completely disenchanted.
b.) Women are not attracted to men who play the role of insecure. You can not talk to a woman with a bundle of nerves and pretend to be attracted to you. A woman expects a man sure of himself, confident and powerful. If you feel you do not possess these traits, quickly lose attraction for you.
c.) Women become disillusioned with the guys who are "boring". If you're talking to a woman, need to know how to keep a fun conversation. If you continually face awkward silences, you're stuck in "interview mode" or just talk about unimportant topics as time ... you can be sure that this woman will not be interested in talking to you.
d.) One of the most important factors that will shatter a woman's attraction to you is to presume a lack of social intelligence. Women are social creatures. And blindly follow "norms". If a man does not realize what is socially acceptable, it will discard it as someone who is "below" her. The easiest way to brag about the lack of social intelligence while talking to a woman is to make inappropriate comments, not capture the "clues" that she is sending you or make jokes that nobody finds funny continuously.
If you understand all these points, then you can not blame a woman for not wanting to be with a weak, insecure, socially clueless, boring and needy. Ask yourself ... would you like a woman so attractive?Now let's talk about ...
What kind of conversations "exist" to a woman?
a.) have to learn to talk to women so that it serves its funny side, flirtatious and playful. There is a song ... "Girls Just Want To Have Fun ..." that is completely correct. That is even more true if you start talking to a woman in a bar. She is there to have fun. You need to be able to flirt with her so that you feel like a child again.
b.) Women are emotional creatures. You talk so that provoke an emotional state in them. You get emotional talking about topics like her passions, childhood, vacations or any other topic of conversation that evokes emotion. It is also helpful to inject emotional words in conversation when describing something. Instead of saying "It was fun," say, for example ... "my heart raced so much that I almost had a fit of adrenaline" or something similar.
c.) You need to prove you're a socially intelligent man. Women are "excited" very much men dominate society, have a certain status and power. But best of all is you do not actually need to own any of it. Just talk to a girl the same way that this kind of man would speak. You have to speak from a position of power, status and a SLIGHT superiority. Women are attracted to men who are slightly above them in the social scale.
d.) You have to talk so that provoke their sexual side. The fact is, you could be having the world's most incredible conversation on any topic like "health food", but such issues rarely turn an attraction. If your order to talk to a girl is to cause sexual attraction should not be afraid to talk about issues to a more intimate level. That does not mean you have to talk about sex ... but it does not avoid personal and intimate issues. These are the types of conversations that create a rapport and have women start feeling a greater connection with you.
The next point is how to talk to women to feel attracted to you
Many men do not know how to hold a conversation with a woman and talk to her to feel attracted to him. Most men end up boring women.
I've coached enough men to know that most of them are stuck in front of a pretty woman. Or, are so nervous they give an image unsafe and boring.
Women expect men to LEAD the conversation in a fun, sexy and interesting. They want you to be able to make her laugh, smile and feel safe around you.
In short, the key to attracting a woman is talking to her doing that much fun and enjoyment to be with you while slowly starts flowing sexual tension, and then be dominant enough to kiss at the exact moment she is expecting.
Well ... then what kind of things fun, interesting, playful and sexy contain a conversation?The 15 "Tips" to lure
1.) Should talk on subjects 'emotional' like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will show their emotional side.
2.) Women want a man who is not afraid to direct it. While speaking with a woman, take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate the topic of conversation.
3.) Pay attention to nonverbal cues you give a woman. If you're too close to it, accidentally spit when you talk or you make them feel uncomfortable in any way ... she will give to understand. Pay attention to it.
4.) Remember this motto: "Amusing, not Funny". Women are attracted to men that allow them to have fun. Do not focus on making the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing that you are the most exciting and the most will enjoy.
5.) Causing women. One of the easiest ways to bring a conversation to a fun and exciting level is starting to cause a woman. Remember when you played in the park as a kid. In the dating world .... what worked in the park is also effective.
6.) Get intimate with her. Women were "excited" men who are not afraid to have a personal and intimate conversation.
7.) Use resources such as "cold reading" to interest. A women love to hear opinions on them. Tell him what you notice about her.
8.) Avoid complimenting a woman too. The women rule the men who are "needy". If a woman piropeas too, think you're trying to impress, which will result in the opposite effect.
9.) If you want to know how to talk to girls not to bore ... Avoid asking too much "interview style". Better tell your opinion about the topic.
10.) Remember phrases instead of questions. Instead of saying "Where did you grow up?" Di "does not seem to be in this city (or district)". This allows you to comment on it and express your personality while.
11.) Do not hide your personality. Do not be afraid to talk about what you're passionate about, but with a certain limit.
12.) Never mind him compliments about his eyes, looks or body.
13.) Say something to let you know you see it in a way too "sexual". If not, you will fall into the risk of ending up in the "friend zone".
14.) Use "games" of conversation to keep the tone fun and interesting. The games can be just something like "Dare or truth" or something less extreme as "the game of 5 questions."
15.) Do not make it easy too soon. A women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep the interest of a woman, she has to feel that you are due. If you think you're too easy ... lose interest.The best way to think about how to talk to women is to know what kind of fun conversation, naughty sex and enjoy it more.
Talk to a woman is not difficult. You just need to consider what is what "excites" more. And what they do not like for nothing. Follow the list above and you will get it without any problem.
When you talk to a woman so that you attract, you will begin to notice that:
Puts all kinds of excuses to keep talking to you
Your turn more (puts his hand under your shirt or feel your muscles)
He gets jealous when you talk to other girls
They laugh at your jokes (even with having no grace)
It shortens the distance and leans more towards you
If you want to see examples of some of the things you have to learn, get: Do Sexy A Short Talk - Climbing in the conversation.